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A woman has revealed she made her husband wear eye shields during every Oppenheimer nude scene after he left her to suffer ‘betrayal trauma’ from watching porn.
Jourdan Kehr, from West Virginia, candidly took to TikTok to disclose how she researched the blockbuster ahead of time in order to “have a game plan” with her partner.
The 29-year-old, who works as a photographer, had her close her eyes and lay her head on her shoulder during sex scenes in the film starring Florence Pugh.
Jourdan had previously spoken of suffering ‘trauma’ after discovering her husband of nine years had watched pornography – but said he had been ‘sober’ for 10 months.
Jourdan Kehr, from West Virginia, candidly took to TikTok to divulge how she researched the blockbuster ahead of time in order to have “a game plan” with her partner
The 29-year-old candidly revealed: ‘I research everything before watching it, but especially this film’
Jourdan, who works as a photographer, made her close her eyes and lay her head on his shoulder during sex scenes in the film starring Florence Pugh
In his Oppenheimer clip, which has so far been viewed more than 316,000 times, Jourdan responds to a user comment asking for advice for a couple “wanting to watch Oppenheimer but completely scared of the Florence Pugh scene whose everyone talks”.
Whereupon she begins: ‘Okay, I research everything before I watch it, but especially this movie.
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“Obviously I heard about it, yes we wanted to see it, it has an incredible rating.
‘We prepared. I didn’t know when the scene was going to happen and I didn’t understand how the scene was going to happen either. I thought it was just a few minutes straight…”
Jourdan utters the word ‘sex’ rather than verbalizing it, before continuing: ‘But it wasn’t, it was actually split like it would be a flash of that, then it would be a flash of normal life and then it would be a flash of the scene.
“It was very back and forth, so it was really hard to avoid it.”
She said she and her husband talked about everything and formed a “game plan” wherever they went, including concerts and events.
Jourdan then continued, “So basically what we did was when the scene was happening, when things were happening, he would literally close his eyes and lay his head on my shoulder… And then I would do that to him. know when it was over. ‘
Other social media users were quick to respond to the comments to share their own thoughts on the bizarre arrangement – and they didn’t hold back
She concluded, “I’ll tell you right now that didn’t take anything away from the story. The fact that he wasn’t looking at the screen during didn’t change the scenario, didn’t change anything.
Other social media users were quick to respond to the comments to share their own thoughts on the bizarre arrangement – and they didn’t hold back.
One wrote: “It’s dysfunctional not being able to handle scenes like this.”
Another added: “It’s not that bad.”
And a third asked: “Why is this a problem for couples at all?!”
Despite the backlash, Jourdan uploaded another clip to the video-sharing platform a few days later to reveal she was suffering from “betrayal trauma”.
She told her followers: ‘I suffered the trauma of betrayal 10 months ago after nine years of marriage, 10 years of a completely monogamous relationship.
“I was convinced that he didn’t look at other women, that he didn’t have fun with other women, porn was the furthest thing from my mind.”
“I would never have thought or believed he was using porn, but he was and I found out on September 17, 2022. It was the hardest day of my life. These were the most difficult weeks and months of my life.
Despite the backlash, Jourdan uploaded another clip to the video-sharing platform a few days later to reveal she was suffering from “betrayal trauma”.
Jourdan continued, “The trauma of betrayal has changed me as a person inside and out.
“It put a lot of stress on me. It made me suffer a lot. It made me sick. It made me go through depression. It gave me a lot of stress and a lot of anxiety.
“I’ve come a long way in my recovery…I’m still with my husband and I’m so happy and I’m so grateful and I’m so proud to say he’s been 10 months sober.
‘He’s done all the steps, all the work, everything it takes to not only change, stay sober and achieve long-term recovery, but also to make sure that he creates a safe space, that he becomes a person. trustworthy and showing me the signs I need through his actions, behaviors and habits that he is going in the right direction.
She concluded by saying “I’m really happy with how far I’ve come” before offering help to other men and women going through similar experiences.